Are Soul Contracts, Past Life Karma and Secret Fears Keeping You Apart From Your Twin? A Step-By-Step Guide to Making Love and Union Happen on All Levels…
Thank you everyone who writes to me with love and with questions – I so appreciate you! Because I receive so many emails and comments every week I’m not able to answer everyone personally but I do whatever I can to answer you here on the blog.
I see every day that Twin Flames all over the world are dealing with the same issues – I really want you to know if you’re hurting right now things can change, faster than you might think.
I’ve seen in hundreds of cases how Twins’ connection changes once you begin working with your energy vibration and your core beliefs. This is why I’ve created a Free Help Kit for Twin Flames with a powerful energy cleanse tool to get you started on raising your vibration and clearing your chakras to begin shifting your situation right now.
You can have a look at the amazing experiences other Twins have had with my energy tools here.
Today’s question is another one I’m frequently asked by Twins from all over the world:
“How Can My Twin Flame And I Get Together In Physical Reunion, Not Just On the Soul Planes?”
“You say that Twin Flames are never apart on the soul level, I have no doubt about this – but what about the earth level, how can I manifest this reunion concretely on earth level?” – Seraphine
Thank you for this important question, Seraphine! Many Twins are interacting on the soul planes but still apart physically, whether it’s because you live in different countries or are in ‘separation’ or in other relationships – so I’m glad to get to address this important issue today.
I’m glad you mention that Separation doesn’t apply to Twin Flames as we are the same original consciousness – we’re never truly “apart”. But that’s not to say it’s wrong for us to want to be together in the “real world” too! So today, we’re looking at how to make that happen.
There are a few important things that impact this situation.
Firstly, let’s look at what might be getting in the way of your Physical Reunion:
#1) Is Karma Getting in the Way?
I’ve seen many Twins whose past life experiences keep them in an unconscious pattern of feeling that it’s unsafe to come together in the physical world. Most often this is because of painful experiences from the past (war, abandonment, forced separation).
This means these Twins on some level have a fear that bad things will happen if they come together in the “real world”. They feel safe and happy to unite in the “5D” or soul realms but are blocking physical reunion.
Clearing this karma will remove the block – opening up for all parts of you to feel safe and good to come together yet again.
Karma means something unhealed – where a part of us is “stuck” in a past trauma and sending out that same fear signal to the universe over and over. We often have karma from our current life too.
A lot of love blocks and diffuse health issues (the type where there’s no clear medical diagnosis) are based in karma – trauma from the past. It can truly transform our lives to deal with and clear karma. It opens us up to positive conscious creation rather than being locked to a cycle of negativity.
For simple but effective karma clearing tools and info on how karma really works and how to deal with it – have a look here.
I use karma clearing all the time still, and it helped me move huge blocks on my own journey. To read about a particular karmic pattern my Twin and I had and how we got over it, have a look here.
#2) Do You Have Unfinished Business Where You Are/With Someone Else?
We’ve all chosen our place of birth and the people we grow up around. Before we reincarnate our spirit and our Twin’s meticulously engineer our life circumstances to help us with our desired soul growth and mission for this lifetime.
We often have soul contracts not only with particular people, like soul mates, but also with collectives. We often have soul contracts with our native country, the other inhabitants there, and soul contracts with our families and people who are central in our upbringing.
Having “unfinished” business with others can be a pullback from relocating geographically and from shifting out of one life situation and into another (such as getting together with your Twin).
Similarly, attachments to others who would unconsciously prefer you to stay put (family, most often) will energetically act against your own desire to move. Attachments to lovers from the past or people you’re currently involved with can interfere with your desire to reunite with your Twin.
Clearing attachments and resolving old outdated soul contracts will help clear you up to get together in the physical with your Twin. We go through this both in the Vibrational Alignment Program I created for Twin Flames – my step by step guide to Twin Flame Union – and in the Energy Clearing Sessions for Twin Flames.
3) Are Fear Patterns/Negative Beliefs Secretly Sabotaging You?
I see this often with Twins – and others. The human tendency is to think that if we want something, that’s it. We forget that the human psyche is complex and deep, and that an estimated 95% of our thought activity is unconscious.
The unconscious is the storehouse of all our fears, past hurts, beliefs, doubts and negative expectations. These create counter-intentions to our conscious desires.
Say you want to get together with your Twin Flame in the physical, but unconsciously you feel that where they live is unsafe for you, or that relationships usually end unhappily, or that men usually betray women, or that you might not be able to afford the move…
These are all working directly against your desire to get together with your Twin. It’s like trying to drive a car right and left at the same time – it doesn’t work. The car just stops.
On the Twin Flame journey, it’s important to get clear on our counter-intentions so we can deal with this. Fear is the number one basis of counter intentions, and often fear is based in beliefs we’ve been “fed” by others in our upbringing.
To begin mapping out your counter-intentions, get out a piece of paper and write out your desire. Then, note down all of the negative implications. Like: It might not work out. Your Twin might change their mind and decide not to want to be with you. You might not find a good job where they live. The universe might not support you, otherwise it would have happened already. And so on… All the fears and doubts you might have. Write until you can’t think of anything else.
Next, get out a new piece of paper and write down all the “Best Case Scenarios” for your desired situation. You and your Twin might enjoy being together even more than you had hoped. Life is short and it will be a fun adventure. You’d love to experience living a different place. There are more opportunities there for you. And anything else you can think of.
This is feeding your unconscious mind with positive info that supports what you desire, helping all of you to align with your getting together.
Lastly, clear all the negatives either by tearing up or burning (in a safe place) the list of fears and doubts, or by using energy clearing tools. I’d recommend energy clearing as it erases these negatives from your whole being.
Try the free energy cleanse tool in the Free Kit for Twin Flames to begin with and intend that the light rinses all of these fears out of you.
Now, as our second part of the process, we begin to actively create and manifest your desire. Now you’ve begun clearing out the blocks you’ll find that it’s much easier and smoother than before.
#1) Set Your Intention – Feel As If You Have it Already
Visualize your ideal situation often (for a specially created visualization for Twins, go here). Write it down even. Get into the feeling energy of having your ideal physical reunion NOW.
Avoid getting into feeling sad or disappointed that it hasn’t happened yet. There is a HUGE difference between the energy signal of HAVING something vs WANTING something. Wanting usually has an energy of not having it yet, which attracts more of not having it yet…
So surround yourself with reminders of what it would be like to be in your joyous physical reunion right now. What would you be doing, saying, wearing, feeling, thinking? What would it look like? Script it in writing, visualize it, make a vision board and make this your focus.
Act as if it’s already happened. This is what keeps you aligned with it and attracting it to you without interruptions and blocks. Creative Visualization Meditations are my favorite way to manifest – guided along by my voice you can get the “easy way” to manifest Twin Flame harmony too.
#2) If More Blocks/Negativity Comes Up, Clear Them.
When we set the intention to manifest something, our souls begin to bring our attention to whatever might be in the way of it. This is why the Twin Flame journey often brings up so much struggle. When we send the signal that we desire to unite in love, our soul shows up all the things that are blocking that very thing.
So make sure you clear what comes up! That’s how you open up to creating and experiencing it. For easy tools to do that, go here.
I’ve noticed that many people seem to think that meditating means clearing, or that thinking about letting something go means clearing the energy. It doesn’t. Meditation can lift your energy vibration temporarily and help you attune with your soul, but it can’t eradicate negative karma or energy triggers of things like running and separation.
Energy clearing tools are completely different from meditation. They are instant and allow you to use your power as an infinite being to permanently erase any causes of blocks and disharmony, even those that aren’t conscious to you.
#3) Stay Focused on Your Desire – Keep Going
Remember that energy is 100% predictable – therefore manifestation is too. If you stay aligned with your desire and remove any blocks in the way of it, it must happen at some point. The laws of energy ALWAYS match like with like.
So if you can hold the vibration of Physical Reunion consistently, you will be drawing it to you more and more. It might not happen instantly, but it can be a lot faster than you’d expect.
Things really can change overnight. Remember to stay in the feeling of having it now and clear the blocks with energy tools. Learning energy clearing and vibrational management was the turning point for my own journey and it’s helped so many other Twins too. Have a look at their testimonials here, and get started with the Free Help Kit for Twin Flames right now.
As always, I’m sending you love and light for your continued journey.
I believe in you! <3
Want more? For an easy, fun way to manage your mindset, elevate your vibration and harmonize your journey with your Twin, have a look at the Vibrational Alignment Program for Twin Flames here.
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