Q&A: “Why Is The Twin Flame Journey So Hard?”

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The Deeper Reasons Why So Many Twins Never Make It To “Heaven On Earth”. Are You And Your Mirror Soul Aligned In Harmony Or Stuck On The “Twin Flame Rollercoaster”?

This is something I’m asked all the time, so although it might seem like a simple question, I was guided to go through this to provide some clarity and help for the collective.

In truth, the Twin Flame connection can be a struggle or smooth, depending on the two Twins and the lessons their souls chose to explore in life.

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Where Do Twin Flames Come From?

So to fully answer this question “Why do Twin Flames experience such difficulty together?”… we have to go back to the Twin Flames’ origins again. Where we all come from…

As souls, we are made of “light” – pure consciousness. No conflict.

It’s when the Twin Flames come into the human world of polarity, separation consciousness and density that problems arise.

And we knew that this was likely to happen. You might already know that the Twin Flame “mission” is to “gift” the world with unconditional love.

To form a gateway to pure unconditional love to help the planet’s Ascension into a higher state of collective consciousness.

And if you look around in society, you’ve probably already noticed the world isn’t exactly full of love in most ways. That’s why we’re here. To help with this.

(Read more about the Twin Flame Mission here)


Pioneers Of Love

We’re here as pioneers of love, “peaceful warriors of light”.

Even the Twins who are currently stuck in negativity, hurt and “running” are here for love. They just don’t remember it – or they’re afraid of opening up.

Love is the reason why the Twin Flames chose to divide from one original consciousness, to journey into separation in physical form… and find their way back together despite all the “darkness” of human life.

To help society heal ancient wounds of conflict, by being here and activating in physical form the unconditional love our souls shared since the dawn of our existence.


Going Undercover For Love

And in order to do this, Twin Flames chose to go “under” as human beings.

To take on karmic baggage, to absorb the hurt, conflict, limitations that humanity have experienced throughout history…

So that we could “learn to be human” – then to awaken to our true nature and reunite in love. 

To with our awakening and unity, heal old division and separation programming in society. To heal karmic pain in key family lineages and groups, and to activate and “gift” the world with unity consciousness.

Sounds beautiful, right? However, this is where the problems stem from.

Because the awakening process means that the “baggage” we took on in early life and from our bloodlines, begins to be purged.

What usually sets off this process is the heart activation and Kundalini triggering that happens when the Twins connect fully for the first time.


Stirring Up The Depths

After this, old negativity begins to be pushed to the surface. Spirit shows us a glass filled with tea – where the tea leaves settled at the bottom. This is a regular human being.

But when we begin to “awaken” it’s a process like pouring fresh water into the glass of tea – the leaves start to get stirred up. This is Ascension, awakening.

This is why Twins often feel “worse” (i.e. triggered by each other) after having shared intimacy or been open with each other. It’s because their systems trigger each other through connecting in love.

I was guided to create a short video to explain this process, the real reason why so many Twin Flames experience struggles.

Above all, know that the Twin Flame journey is not “meant” to be a pain or hurtful. The universe/source/god/angels/guides/your higher self are not forcing you to learn through suffering!

On the contrary – that would only cement into the earth plane even more negativity.

No, Twin Flames are here as messengers of light, carriers of love. Anything else is due to the purging process!

For help to uplift your journey and smooth out the “Twin Flame rollercoaster” so many struggle with – please do go ahead and download my Free Twin Flame Help Kit, which contains a powerful energy cleanse audio and other resources to help you.

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The Twin Flame Soul Song

When the Twin Flames come together – as two aspects of an originally identical energy or Soul – both are triggered to release any extraneous “baggage” that congests or pollutes their core original energy.

Also called the Twin Flame Soul Song.

Anything that is not in alignment with your inner core energy frequency of love – what you share with your Twin – will be purged in a process referred to as “Twin Flame Ascension”.

The purpose of this is to ready the two of you for Twin Flame Union, where your soul aspects merge together once again from a human physical form.

This is what creates the gateway of light, when you open the dimensional doorway to unconditional love permanently.

Read more about Twin Flame Union here

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How To Make Your Journey Smoother

In order to be ready for Union, you must be in vibrational alignment yet again, the way you were when you first parted – otherwise you will be out of range energetically to each other.

This process of cleansing your energies can often be experienced as a challenge. But once you understand that this is what’s happening and the reasons behind it, it becomes a lot easier to handle for most.

After my own Twin and I reached Union I was guided to share our energy clearing methods with the Twin Flame collective.

This will work even if your Twin is not aware of the true nature of your connection.

10 classes and audio clearings that take you through each facet of the Twin Flame connection and reaching a high enough vibration to enter into Reunion.

We go through eradicating negative karma, cutting old cords and attachments to previous lovers, opening your telepathic connection and hearts to each other, clearing outworn soul contracts, unleashing Kundalini energy, looking into your personal Twin dynamic and “mission”, and much more…

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Read testimonials from other Twins who have taken the program here.


The Perfect Match

Know that it this process – which was initiated by your souls automatically when you and your Twin Flame’s energies interacted again in this lifetime – that’s the real cause of difficulties for the Twin Flames.

You and your Twin really are a perfect fit, but your souls are working to resolve anything that’s disrupting this and bringing you out of balance.

Know that the Twin Flame connection in itself is not “difficult” whatsoever, but what happens is that any pain, hurt, trauma and negativity you have experienced throughout existence, will be brought up to be released.

In other words, your Twin Flame triggers all the buried wounds and pain in you. And vice versa.

The pain isn’t coming from your Twin, but energetically they trigger you to feel it so that it can be cleared once and for all – their soul desires you to reunite in love.

Their system and yours keep pushing each other in this automatic process to return to your natural state.

Have a look at this Twin Flame Chakra Reading for deeper insights on what’s going on with your system and your Twin’s right now

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Keeping A True Perspective

Keep this in mind at all times, as it will help you stay more neutral so that these negative energies can leave the way they’re supposed to.

And again, there are energy tools that can make this process much lighter and quicker.

This triggering of negative energy patterns can often cause what is termed as “running” and “chasing” and “separation” on the Twin Flame journey, but be aware that this does not have to be the case.

(Watch a video about Twin Flame Running here – 3 Mistakes To Avoid If Your Twin Is Running, Plus Things You Can Do Right Now To Get Them Back)

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The Real Reason Why Some Twins Never Reunite

“Running” and “chasing” happens when the Twins take the old negativity at face value and act on them, accepting them once again into their reality and keeping this old negativity around.

In doing this, the old negative patterns are unfortunately kept in a loop, where cycles of “running” and “chasing” and negativity keep cropping up.

Your souls will keep bringing up the negativity for you to release, but if you do not allow it to release, the energy will unfortunately keep being stuck in this loop!

Once the Twins realize the nature of this release process, they can work to allow the past negativity to leave the way it’s supposed to and permanently move past the difficulties.

The biggest problem for most Twins is that they do not realize that the journey to Twin Flame Union is a cleansing process – they take these negative energies and patterns for granted in the present moment and accept it as a negative aspect of the Twin Flame relationship.

That’s why people talk about the Twin Flame journey as being such a struggle or full of suffering. It’s because they don’t understand what’s really going on!

Watch a short explainer video on how it works here:

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Twin Flame Soul Contracts

It’s worth noting as well that although your earthly conscious self, the “Ego” might prefer not to be involved in this process, it is something your deeper soul self arranged for and planned before you incarnated.

Ascension and the journey to Twin Flame Union is not something you can stop in the here and now, as it’s a decision made on the soul level.

However, you can take away the pain and difficulty so you can enjoy the process and get to the harmony and love that will result, with greater ease and speed.

You see, the purpose of this process is to clear you of any negativity and get you back up into a place of love and joy and peace and happiness.

And that’s something you’ll enjoy tremendously once you get there!


The Journey Back To Unconditional Love

One thing is for sure, you and your Twin Flame are 100% compatible from the beginning of your existence – you share the exact same energetic frequency. (Read more about this here)

What’s needed to get back to perfect harmony is simply to clear away the negative energy that’s been layered on top of you throughout your many experiences and lives since you started incarnating on earth.

I know it might seem tough if you’ve experienced problems so far…

But know that you wouldn’t be here if you didn’t know as a soul that it was possible – that you could live happily, that you could reunite in harmony.

Love is the answer. You are so much more capable than you might think! I believe in you.

Try my Free Downloads here to get started – you don’t need a credit card and there’s no spam once you sign up.

Use the guided meditations for 14 days and notice the shifts! So many other Twin Flames have benefited from this already (read their feedback here).

As always, I’m sending you love and light for your continued journey!

I’m so honored to be on this beautiful path alongside you. <3

Cassady x


If you found this article interesting, you might also enjoy the following:

Essentials For The Twin Flame Journey (Info on Ascension, Awakening, the Twin Flame Stages, Union, The Twin Flame Mission and more)

The Vibrational Harmony Quiz – Are You Really Open To Reunion?

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Want more? Download the Free Twin Flame Help Kit to get info on the awakening code 11:11 and the Ascension process going on across the planet right now, plus a deep Alpha Level meditation to connect with your Twin Flame on the soul planes right now!

 

“My Twin Flame is a Runner and something amazing happened today… I’ve done the clearing two days in a row so far, and guess who called me this morning after doing the meditation and energy cleanse? Yup, you guessed it… he called on his own without prompting from me! I am so darn happy, it’s a miracle!”

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  • Molly Cooper

    Perhaps this has been asked before, (I am physically separated from my TF), but sometimes I “feel” or sense them so close, I don’t know where I begin and they end and I have been told I am a channel.
    When I feel sexual energy or a strong flow of love energy in my heart out of the blue that is theirs, I am so glad they are feeling this. But I don’t know if it is relevant to me, or if they could be feeling this about someone else. How can I know?
    Also, they live in a very ego-centric world and career. My struggle is how do I not let it hurt me that they do not “choose” to share their life experiences with me.
    Cassady – again – you are a blessing and gratitude doesn’t express what you are doing for us. Namaste.

  • Casie Mutua

    Hey Ali, before you answer whether they’re your twin or not, remember you are YOUR OWN TWIN above all. Doesn’t seem to make much sense until you realize that the world only mirrors back to you what you have in your own self. Really, a physical stalemate just implies at a stale energy in you… Stale in that it’s been there without much movement for as long as you can remember the stalemate state. One thing that helps every time, change… Just shifting one thing or another in life allows for movement of the energy all together. Then, only you have the true answers to your own questions… For a minute there put away this person and the state out of your mind, then focus on your self and see what comes up, how you feel about it and yourself all together. Then polish what you like and shift what you don’t, keep in mind it’s not about judging yourself but loving yourself in every which way you can …love what you adore and gift yourself with change of what you don’t, all in all, loving yourself through it. The Universe will handle the rest, long as love is your choice of communication