Did You Know Many Twins Actually Push Their Counterpart Further Away? Discover Major Mistakes To Avoid, Plus 3 Powerful Things You Can Do Right Now To Start Drawing Your Twin Back To You …
Today’s post is the next in a brand new Twin Flame video series to come during 2018. I know many of you are on YouTube and have been asking me to put out videos – so this year I will!
This new video is on Twin Flame Running – Major Mistakes To Avoid, Plus Solutions (Video)
This is a longer video, which specifically sets out to assist step by step with the common struggle of “Twin Flame Running”.
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***How To Deal With A Twin Flame Runner***
3 Major Mistakes To Avoid If Your Twin Is Running! Plus 6 Things To Do Right Now To Bring Your Love Back and End The Cycle of Pain For Good. How To Heal Your Connection, No Matter What’s Happened Before…
Twin Flame Running is probably the most feared and talked about part of this intense journey, and I’m asked about this all the time.
Being someone who has a clear channel to spirit and each Twin’s soul when I’ve done readings, I have had a unique chance to get a direct look into the psychology and energy of so-called Twin Flame Running.
So here are 6 key things you can begin doing right now to end the cycles of running, and 3 major mistakes so many twins make – so you can avoid them.
Make sure you stay on till the end as I’ll share with you a huge warning sign and trigger many Twins miss when it comes to Running.
6 Things To Do If Your Twin Flame Is Running
#1) Try To Stay Calm – They’re Not Really Running From You, They’re Running From “Themselves”
Twin Flames are two souls who were once one. When they meet and interact, there is a deep connection that cuts straight to the core and activates the inner “soul song”.
The “Twin Flame Mirror” means our counterpart always reflects back to us somehow what we hold inside. When a Twin Flame is full of insecurity, old hurts, feelings of inadequacy or shame… They feel this instinctively in their other self.
This can cause them to “run” – to get away from the inner shadows they’re afraid to face.
#2) Stay In A Space Of Love – It’s Not That They Don’t Love You, They’re Just Afraid
Some sites and Twin Flame experts tell you Running is caused because the so-called Chaser Twin is being too forceful – and that the lesson is for the Chaser to let go and surrender.
The Chaser Does Not “Cause” Running! It’s Caused By Unconscious Fears
This can be incredibly hurtful to hear, and it’s not really true! Overwhelmingly Running is not something that the other Twin is at fault for or can permanently change by altering their behavior.
What’s Really Happening Is That a “Runner Twin” Is Triggered By Fear!
And it’s something in their history that’s triggering them. A Runner is not withdrawing because he or she has fallen out of love with or has lost interest in their counterpart. No, the emotional and energetic cause of Running is unconscious fear.
So even if a “Chaser” could stop Chasing and the issue was resolved for a period, the Runner will inevitably still “Run” again at some point, when the subconscious fear is triggered yet again. Here is why:
Twin Flame Running Is A Self-Defense Mechanism Rooted In Fear…
Running is what I’d psychologically term as a defense reaction – from hundreds of intuitive sessions with Twin Flames I’ve been given the opportunity to attune to the inner feelings and energies of so-called Runners as well as their Twins.
Twin Flame Running Is A Defense Reaction. Caused By Fears of Rejection, Not Being Good Enough, Abandonment, Unworthiness, Hurt…
There are many different kinds of fear involved in Twin Flame running but the most common root fears the Runner experiences are:
*Unconscious fear of rejection (so they reject first),
*Fear of not being good enough (so they expect ultimate rejection and reject first),
*Fear of abandonment (so they leave you before you can leave them),
*Fear of unworthiness (feeling that nothing this good could ever be meant for them),
*Fear of hurt (a general fear of where there’s something good, something painful must inevitably follow)
Your Twin Flame Could Be Running Because Of Childhood (Or Past Life) Trauma. Opening Up To Others Is Associated With Pain And Hurt
In most cases these fears are incredibly strong but unconscious, and the actual running is something that happens as an outer, automatic reaction to protect the person against hurt.
And unwittingly, when the two Twin Flames interact in a way that triggers fear in the Runner – they Run. Without truly knowing why.
When we experience something painful in life, the trauma becomes embedded in us on an emotional and energetic level. The energy and emotion we felt at that point gets trapped inside us like a pocket of negativity.
In this way a person can develop a lifelong fear of commitment in romantic relationships based on being abandoned by their parent in childhood, for example, because they experienced such deep pain when opening up to love and it was taken away from them that time.
For the Runner, something makes them fear getting closer to their Twin. Getting close with their Twin is associated subconsciously with pain, in some way.
Once you find the root of the fear and release it, the “outer symptom” (in this case Twin Flame Running) will fade away.
#3) Clear Both Your Energy Systems – Remove The Deeper Triggers Of Running…
Because the Twin Flames are so closely connected and are originally one consciousness, it is extremely common for Twin Flames to trigger each other.
The roots of Running are old wounds being triggered again by negativity traveling from one Twin to the other.
Have you noticed that Running often happens right after amazing experiences of love and togetherness? In these moments – especially when there’s a sexual climax – the Twins come so close their energies open to each other. All the wounds laid bare, and when this happens, triggering is incredibly common.
Spirit asked me especially to create a healing track for Twin Flames to clear the channels between the pair, to eradicate common triggers of Running and Separation. Click here to discover more about this
I did this with myself and my Twin on our journey all the time because I discovered that things that memories of relationships and attachments from past lovers not only impact one Twin but both.
Clearing the channels between you and your Twin regularly will remove any triggers of Running/Chasing/Separation and allow you to raise your connection into harmony.
This will give your Twin the emotional and energetic “space” to calm down and feel safe to open up again.
Once the fears are gone, the automatic reaction of Running won’t be triggered anymore.
The person will relax and open up in a completely different way because the trigger will be gone. Once we’ve cleared the cause of Running, there will be no cycles of Running anymore.
You can try the Free Help Kit for Twin Flames to get started on this right away – when you work on your energy your Twin will be positively impacted too, it begins to shift the whole dynamic between you because Twin Flames share an energy field.
Because the Twin Flames are of identical energetic signatures, we share the same energy field – this means that one Twin Flame can go in and energetically clear negativity for the other.
#4) Anchor Into The Deeper Truth Of Your Connection – You Always Share A Bond Of Love As Souls
No Matter what’s happening on the earth plane with your human personalities, you and your Twin soul share a bond of unconditional love. Try to stay centered in this. meditate, calm your mind. Find that inner space of peace where you KNOW that you and your Twin will never truly lose each other.
Look Beyond The Human Masks Of Ego – Connect In With Your Intuition.
Anchor Into The Truth That Your Twin Will Never Truly Leave. Change The Momentum By Relaxing Into Peace – Attract Them Back To You
When you step into an inner confidence that your Twin will always come back to you, and that their soul is always there with you in love, you change the energetic momentum. Worrying and focusing on the fear of running will only reinforce negativity.
Get back into your space of inner peace, and you begin to attract them back to you.
#5) Connect with Your Twin Flame on the Soul Planes – Nourishing Love And Togetherness
Life on earth is simply one part of the Twin Flame journey – there is so much going on behind the scenes on this path, in the realms of energy, the soul planes.
No matter what your Twin is going through in life and what their actions have been, their soul loves you eternally. Interacting with your Twin’s Soul and strengthening this bond between you, will help heal your Twin connection in “real life”.
Interact With Your Twin’s Soul Or Higher Self Presence – It Strengthens Your Connection, Heals Pain And Helps Awaken Them As a Human Being
Connecting in love with your Twin’s Soul helps them step into the eternal part of their consciousness – the part of them that knows who they really are and why the two of you “belong together”.
Strengthening and enjoying the soul bond in love will help them release any animosity and move them into a state of emotion and energy where they begin to be drawn to you again.
You can attract your Twin Flame, no matter where they’re at, by interacting with their soul and engaging with them that way (use the free guided meditation here to do so).
No Matter What’s Happening Between You As Human Beings, Your Twin’s Soul Has Nothing But Love For You
This was something that shocked me in dozens of readings and coaching sessions with Twins whose counterpart was a Runner – that the Runner Twin’s soul was always full of love for their counterpart no matter how hurtful they’d been in life.
Your Twin’s soul has nothing but love for you. So many times in readings I’ve felt the pain of Runner Twins’ souls, who only wanted to love. Who felt terrible for the pain they were inflicting…
In the Free Help Kit for Twin Flames I offer there’s a deep alpha level meditation which takes you through exactly how to connect with your Twin’s soul in a safe and loving way.
I receive emails every day about the wonderful experiences twins all over the world are having with this.
#6) Practice Creative Visualization of Your Ideal Situation
We’re always creating. When we think, we create. When we speak, we create. When we write, we create. When we feel, we create.
We’re always sending out messages in the form of energy to the universe, reaping back what we’re in alignment with.
You Are Always Creating. Instead Of Running On Autopilot With Worry, Begin Consciously Creating Your Desires. Decide What You Want And Focus On It – Ancient Method of Creative Visualization
Creative Visualization is an amazing and enjoyable way to begin consciously creating what you desire. If your Twin Flame is a Runner, visualize them with you in harmony.
Visualize your ideal situation. No matter how unrealistic it seems to start with, it will begin to shift your energy and your reality field to create it and invite it in. And it will positively impact your Twin Flame too.
Try it for 30 days and notice the shifts.
Creative visualization is an ancient Hindu method but has become famous in recent years. An array of leading lights credit their success to Creative Visualization, from Will Smith and Oprah Winfrey to Jim Carrey and Tiger Woods, to name a few.
Major Mistakes To Avoid If Your Twin Flame Is Running
#1) Don’t Reinforce It – It’s Not A “Set Phase” For All Twin Flames
It’s not a given that all Twin Flames experience phases of running. Don’t believe everything you read or hear online! There’s a lot of misinformation about Twin Flames out there.
If you focus on the negatives, unfortunately you’re entrenching it in your experience.
Look for the deeper causes of running, work to resolve them, and focus on manifesting what you do desire.
#2) Stop Focusing on Your Twin Flame As a Runner
Unfortunately, when you focus on your Twin Flame as a “Runner”, you’re pushing that energy onto them making it harder for them to shift out of it. Stop using that word, to start with. It creates distance between you.
They’re not “a runner”, they’re your other self, who’s feeling really afraid deep down.
When You Focus On Your Twin Flame As A “Runner” You Push It Onto Them. See That They’re Afraid Deep Down, Send Them Love, Help Them Feel Safe To Open Up Again
Try to take a higher perspective, and send them love. Your unconditional love can help heal the fears they’re feeling and help them feel safe to open up to you again.
Twins impact each other a lot with their focus and energy – more than others, because we’re two sides of one original consciousness. What you reinforce becomes more and more entrenched in your reality field and experiences.
Have you spent time thinking about your Twin Running and how awful it is or being afraid of it happening? Unfortunately this means you’ve been manifesting it.
What Are Your Beliefs About The Twin Flame Connection And Women/Men? Are You Expecting Running? Fearing It? Take Back Control Over Your Mind’s Power
Begin to steer your thoughts and words away from it and begin instead to focus on what you would be happy to experience, and the things you love about your Twin. You are a co-creator of your experience.
Use this power responsibly. When you begin to look for the love in someone, you’ll be surprised at what they mirror back to you.
Have a look at what beliefs you carry around the Twin Flame connection and about women/men. Are you expecting Running? Fearing it? What we fear, we draw close to us.
The universe responds to what we send out – it doesn’t “understand” that we DON’T want our twin to run or to not get in an accident or what have you. It just registers that we keep sending out the signal of “running” or “accident”.
Fortunately, fear is just an energy pattern. A “recipe” we’ve downloaded into our being from someone somewhere. Because fears are energy patterns, we can clear them using energy tools. This is a huge help in manifesting something new and positive instead.
#3) Don’t Get Together With Other Twins To Discuss Your “Runner Situation” – Go Within And Connect With Your Soul’s Guidance Instead
Many Twin Flames understandably try to deal with difficulty by going online and soliciting advice from others who have been through a similar experience.
The big problem with this is that when you do this, you align with their “reality”. You match your energy to theirs. You go into that “story” and begin making it your own.
You invite those people’s hurts, negativity, opinions and experiences to blend with yours. And it will most likely just drag you down.
When You Engage With Online Debates And “Venting” You Are Tapping Into Negative Energy And Absorbing It Into Your Space.
When we’re corded into collective energies, such as a group energy on the internet, we’re linking our energy with all the other people there and what they’ve expelled into the group.
If there’s “venting” going on – you bet you’re tapping into that stuff when you’re there reading, focusing on it, discussing it. Taking on more negativity, sadness and frustration.
Why My Own Twin Connection Took A Nosedive When I Began Helping Other Twins – Keep Your Energy Clear To Ensure A Harmonious Journey
I’ve mentioned it before that when I began giving advice to other Twins, my own connection suddenly started going haywire even though we’d hardly had any issues before.
I was shown that this was due to my energy beginning to interact with others who had conflict and drama going on. Their energy got messed up with my own and it caused so much strife before I discovered what was going on.
Your soul is waiting to give you the answers, if you’ll just take some time to go within and listen. You are the master of your journey. Looking to others might just distract you and cause more stress.
You Have a Built In “Compass” To Twin Flame Union – Your Intuition. Your Soul is Waiting To Give You The Answers But You Must Go Within!
Why Energy Is The Crux Of The Twin Flame Connection – Removing Blocks And Rising Into Harmony
Energy really is the crux of the Twin Flame connection: When your energies are aligned, you exist in harmony together.
When your energies are imbalanced with fear, shame, guilt, worry and other negativity, there are flare-ups of conflict and problems.
I’ve had Twin clients who’d been waiting 20 years for their Twin to stop running, to no avail – it wasn’t because the universe had deemed them unworthy of coming together or because there was something wrong with them.
It was simply because they weren’t in alignment with it. Their energy was blocked to it happening. This is why I was asked to share Free Metaphysical Energy Tools With The Twin Flame collective to help as many as possible step into a state of harmony and union.
Download the Free Help Kit for Twin Flames right now to get going. Things really can change for the better for you, no matter what’s happened before. I believe in you!
And do go ahead and share – What Experiences Have You Had With ****Overcoming**** Twin Flame Running?
I can’t wait to hear from you. And as always I’m Sending You Love And Light For Your Continued Journey! <3
PS: You might also be interested in the following video –
“Where can I start Cassady! Since having started your Harmony Session things have changed so rapidly. I cannot even describe it with words. My heart has opened so much and I am standing in a place of acceptance, love, compassion. I keep seeing 1111 and 111 and I keep repeating myself as a mantra – we are one. I feel this love inside, I feel the changes. Thank you is not enough! Xxxx”
– Annalisa, London, UK
Or alternatively, you can Download the Free Twin Flame Help Kit to get a powerful energy cleanse tool at no cost – a sample of my full methods. When you sign up you also get my 26 Page Free Yearly Energy Forecast for Twin Flames!