Virgo Full Moon highlights the Pain of Perfectionism and the Wounds it inflicts, while the continued Overhaul of the Masculine reveals Deeper Truths About Twin Flame Running…
Strong energies abound as the week starts – the powerful Virgo Full Moon coincides with a strong opposition between Jupiter in Virgo vs Chiron in Pisces. We’re dealing with issues around perfectionism and wounds from old criticism.
With this Full Moon in Virgo, old hurts are set to be lit up and brought up so we can let go of them for good. Some of the deepest wounds we carry come from others’ words and perceptions of us. Others’ judgment of us as less than, as weak, as not good enough. This is what this current Full Moon is all about.
Virgo is the energy template of the selfless lightworker, tirelessly in service for the good of all – but its shadow side is hurtful criticism and demands of perfection. The shadow aspect of Virgo can create deep wounds, especially from old parent-child relationships where the child never feels “good enough” for the demanding parent (or teacher, or sibling).
Relationships such as this are often brought back karmically in adult romantic relationships and friendships because our child connections become templates for our adult functioning – keep an eye on yourself under this Full Moon.
Twin Flame relationships trigger ALL wounds to come up for clearing, so that the Twins can reunite in Unconditional Love. If there’s a perfectionist lurking in your background somewhere, any turbulence you’re going through right now is almost certain to be related to that in some way.
And consider this: The paradox behind the “curse of perfectionism” that is passed on from generation to generation, is that it’s the perfectionists themselves who are often suffering the most – every person who inflicts others with the feeling of not being good enough, is locked in this pattern of lack themselves.
Holding Up the Mirror
We can therefore see that “hurt people, hurt people”. When we hold up the mirror to whatever hurt we’re experiencing like this, we often realize that the person hurting us is experiencing the exact same pain we’re going through. When we keep this in mind, forgiveness becomes easier.
And remember that in this universe there is no such thing as imperfect. Everyone and everything is perfectly imperfect for its specific role. You are the perfect you. You and your Twin’s relationship is a “perfect” expression of your energies. If there is trouble, it is “perfectly” created for you to understand what wounds and hurts are blocking you and release them.
In the face of the demanding energies of this Virgo Full Moon, remember that Unconditional Love is the cure. To love no matter what. To love yourself no matter what.
Inner Child Healing
Inner child healing is incredibly powerful right now, so meditate on your inner child and talk to them, explain that you’ll love them and accept them. Your child is the inner part of your consciousness that’s locked in you at that age, most often due to trauma of some kind. If you, your adult self can help your inner child by using your new found understanding, you can profoundly heal old wounds.
Enlighten the child part of you with your deeper understanding from your adult point of view. Try this with your Twin’s inner child too – we go through this in the most recent energy clearing session for Twin Flames.
Are You Your Own Biggest Source of Hurt?
On this Twin Flame journey, it’s as much about your own inner Alchemy as the one unfolding between you and your Twin. Loving yourself is downright essential – but most of us grow up with the opposite habits, of self criticism, self doubt, self loathing.
So take a few minutes and apologize to yourself for any harsh judgments you may have made along the way. You didn’t deserve you to be so hard on yourself.
You deserve love, you deserve to be unconditionally accepted and treasured for exactly who you are. And you know what? That love is out there and inside you already – start shifting your vibration so you come into range with it.
If we’re on a low frequency, we’re out of tune with Love. It’s there, but we can’t feel it. Shift your energy to open up to it once more.
Shielding Yourself From Others’ Drama
Adding an extra element of sensitivity and emotion to the powerful energies of the Virgo Full Moon, the sun shifts into Pisces on February 22nd too. Pisces energies are supersensitive and can tend toward the “blurry” and “hazy” and those who are sensitive to energy should be extra mindful of shielding themselves now.
Overreactions are highly likely. Again, this is because it’s the past we’re dealing with. Old wounds. If someone flips out on you, remember that the past has a part to play here. They might not even be upset because of you. You just happened to trigger that old hurt they’d been carrying around…
It’s easy to get dragged into the collective fields of heavy emotions right now, and you don’t want to end up feeling others’ emotions. My experience is we have more than enough of our own to deal with…
So, imagine a glowing shield around yourself every day when you wake up and when you go to bed – setting the intention is the most important thing. For more advice on shielding yourself from and clearing outside influence from other people, have a look at the Vibrational Alignment Program.
Mars in the Shadow Zone
We’re now officially in the shadow zone of Mars Retrograde – and the planet representing the Masculine is now receiving strong input from the higher realms to prepare for the big push. Pluto is heavily involved with the Masculine right now, as Mars is visiting the home sign Scorpio and stirred by Pluto itself.
This is signalling that the clearing and purging of the negatives from the collective masculine karmic fields has already begun. We are set to be receiving support from the “higher realms” with new high vibrational templates incoming, while low vibrational subconscious negativity is being funnelled up and out.
Before the low and heavy energies and old negativity can be released for good from the earth plane and each individual – it has to be brought up to the surface. This is Pluto’s “job” – detoxing the Masculine. This is never pleasant, as with any detoxing – it means that a lot of old weird stuff is coming up, and a lot of the time it’s like trying to decipher a foreign language. The human psyche is incredibly complex and some of this stuff might seem completely incomprehensible.
We’re given the message from spirit to have patience, stay rooted in our positive identity as souls (that we are limitless and light), and to use whatever tools we have to purge these negatives so we don’t have to let them stay around and influence us any longer than strictly necessary.
Releasing Masculine Blocks to Twin Flame Union
This can be a challenging time for many, and the way this expresses itself varies from individual to individual – do not be surprised if repressed emotions well up in the form of aggression or tears, it can go either way.
The purpose of this energy transit is to release the energy of harm and abuse of power, but also to heal the self inflicted wounds of the Masculine – when someone inflicts harm on another, this creates a mirror wound energetically in the aggressor too.
A clear message here is that the Divine Masculine is undergoing a specific purge this year in order to release blocks which have been getting in the way of complete Twin Flame Union.
The Root Cause of Twin Flame Running
In order to stop the Running from “himself”, the masculine must clear those most deep-seated wounds that he is still holding himself in shame and guilt and pain for. Only then can he fully open up and rise into Unconditional Love and Twin Flame Union.
It is shown to me that this is the root cause of Twin Flame Running. Twins do not Run from their counterpart, but from their own mirror reflection. If your Twin Flame is Running, he or she is ultimately Running from him or herself, not from you.
Remember that Unconditional Love is an unparalleled power – send your Twin Flame love at this time, and know that you are helping them more deeply than they or you might understand right now.
Energy clearings are a fast, painless way to heal wounds, even remotely – because the Twins have signed up for this journey together and both souls are working for Union regardless of any problems going on at a surface level, one Twin can help the other by clearing negativity for them. This can truly work wonders in seemingly hopeless cases of running and ongoing separation.
A Message for Aries
Have compassion on yourself too right now, no matter where you’re at on your journey. There’s a lot of congestion “up in the air” right now that can create illusions of conflict. It’s easy to be triggered with all of this going on.
It’s worth noting that Aries natives and those with strong Aries placements in their personal chart are set to be affected by this retrograde period, as Mars is the ruling planet of Aries.
In energy terms this means that Aries carries a lot of Mars energies in their physical being and this planet’s energies might therefore trigger them more strongly than others. Again, try to take this as a gift – as we’re getting to “clean house” to move forward with increased lightness of being after Mars has finished his retrograde period by late June.
Until next time, I’m sending you love and light for your continued journey! <3
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