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When Wishful Thinking Becomes A Hidden Enemy Within… Toxic Positivity, Spiritual Bypassing And The Problem With “Shock And Awe” In Spiritual Circles…

Fair warning: Today’s article is another tough love one!

I do these every once in a while because I’ve been on the journey myself and learned a LOT the hard way along the way.

So if I can spare you just SOME of the anguish, the tears and the mistakes I made myself…

I would LOVE to do that. Because as you may have heard me say before, the Twin Flame journey doesn’t have to be hard, but so often it is because we may not fully know how to deal with it…


(Do remember to take advantage of my Free Twin Flame Help Kit and the no cost resources in it, if you haven’t already)

Shock Tactics Or Wishful Thinking?

So, if you’re in social media like most Twins these days, you’ll have noticed something very common…

People act as if unity/Twin Flame love/togetherness/their bliss is somehow magically going to show up on a certain day…

Because it’s 8/8, 11/11, or a cosmic gateway has opened, or there’s a solstice, or Mars/Venus meet, or other transits in astrology/numerology…

There’s a lot of shock and awe.

The Major Flaw In This Thinking

And I don’t like to rain on anyone’s parade – but in 99.9999999999999% of cases, that’s NOT how things work, unfortunately.

(And if you’ve been on the journey a while, you’ll have experienced this first hand too)

Frankly, if outer transits in numerology and astrology brought miracles such as love, abundance and blessings with NO effort on our part…

Everyone on the whole PLANET would be living their bliss!

And that’s CLEARLY not the case…

The Real Magic Of Alignment

No, it’s all about “as WITHIN, so WITHOUT”.

When someone is in alignment with love and unity, it can happen ANY day of the year!

But if someone is NOT in alignment, they could go through every positive cosmic date in the book and it wouldn’t do much for them.

And this is something we can’t just wish our way to. The unconscious alignment is on an energy level, not just in our minds and intentions.

What The Universe Really “Wants” From You

I see so many Twins set themselves up for disappointment with this “destination thinking”.

 Don’t waste your journey waiting for some outside fix that may never arrive. Because we cannot fake alignment…

We are here to awaken to our power to make change happen, not sit on the sidelines.

(You’ll notice this is why my forecasts deal with inner work and what the cosmic energies are “asking of you” and working to get YOU to heal and open to. You are always an active part of your journey).

“Real magic” happens when we begin to step into the INNER state that makes the OUTER shift happen…

So I was guided to create a brand new project to help as many Twins as possible with this. This is my biggest offering with spirit to date:

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I believe in you!

And until next time, I’m sending you love and light for your continued journey <3

Cassady x

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