Welcome to the Twin Flame FAQ page!
On this page I’ve done my best to answer all the most commonly asked questions you may have!
Q: Have I met my Twin Flame? How can I know for sure? Can you help?
A: Yes! Absolutely Definitely have a look at the quiz here for an indication and this article for more info. As mentioned there, your SOUL always knows, it’s just your analytical mind that gets into confusion. So try to relax into it. Try to ALLOW your intuition to show up.
It’s a feeling resonance, an energy thing more than “mental facts”. You’ve known them since the dawn of time, and you’ve always been connected, so try not to worry. Try to enjoy the process. You’ve got this! x Cassady
Q: Help! I desperately need help 🙁 I am in a terrible/desperate situation.
A: Hi there, don’t worry. I understand and I’ll do my best to help. I’ve been on the rollercoaster too. Don’t worry.
I have a few ways to help. First, try to breathe a bit. Center yourself in the present moment. Try to take a few minutes to go within and just breathe. Visualize the pink light of divine love around you and the challenging situation you’re dealing with.
Use the FREE resources here, especially the free energy cleanse. I know it can feel “impossible” when you’re upset but please just take the 10 minutes “with me” to shift your situation into a higher state. This will help resolve any difficulties more smoothly as well.
You may also find that I’ve answered a question like yours on the blog in a previous Q&A. Use the “search box” on the top/right hand side of the blog.
Please know that you have everything it takes to journey happily to unity with your Twin Flame. You are always loved. There are solutions. I’ve seen it time and time again. To get some inspiration to see how things can improve, have a look at the feedback on this page. Positive change happens for Twin Flames every single day. Please have faith. You are not lost.
Be aware that any actions you take while you’re feeling so stressed and desperate, may not be to your highest good – keep in mind it’s probably best to work to calm down before you do anything rash.
Sending you so much love and light <3 x
Q: Help! My Twin Flame is running/a runner 🙁 What can I do?
A: Hi there, I understand this is frustrating but the good news is it can be resolved! You’ll find lots of resources and help for running situations here
Q: Is my Twin Flame/guidance talking to me? Do Twin Flames feel each other’s emotions? How do I know? 😐
A: Hi there, the answer is YES! They’re ALWAYS talking to you 🙂 To get a clearer idea of what they’re saying I’d recommend using the Twin Flame Oracle Card app as it gives them the opportunity to give more specific messages (you can use it for free)
And have a look here at this article on Twin Flame Telepathy and how it works/how to understand what’s being said to you/how to deal with picking up on your counterpart’s emotions
In the Vibrational Alignment Program (class 2, 4 and 6) I teach you methods for reliably and safely opening to guidance, to receive support and information, and methods for interacting “remotely” with your Twin’s soul and strengthening the connection.
Q: My Twin Flame and I are in separation 🙁 What can I do?
A: Hi there, I understand this is frustrating but the good news is it can be resolved! You’ll find lots of resources and help for separation situations here
Q: Help! I need info/help with an Unawakened Twin Flame! (Unawakened=someone who is unaware you’re twins/not spiritually awakened)
A: Hi there, I understand this is frustrating but the good news is it can be resolved! You’ll find lots of resources and help for these kinds of situations here
Q: Help! My Twin Flame is with someone else 🙁
A: Hi there, I understand this is frustrating… You’ll find resources and help for that here and I know Twins have had great success with the Oneness Code Activation here to resolve karmic issues and reunite
Q: What does 11:11 mean? Why am I seeing it?
A: Hi, I’m glad you ask! This is one of the hallmarks of the true Twin Flame connection! You’ll find info on that here
Q: What does it mean when I’m seeing numbers like 333, 444, 888, etc mean?
A: Hi, I’m glad you asked! You’ll find info on that here including a full run-down of the angel number meanings specific for the Twin Flame connection
Q: I want to Reunite with my Twin Flame – please help!
A: Hi there, I have lots of resources and help for you here to make it happen!
Q: I have someone/something dark/negative affecting my Twin Flame connection/my Twin Flame/me. Please help!
A: Hi there, please don’t worry: I have an article with help for that here.
You’ll also find the FREE energy cleanse session helpful, as it will clear away the negative energy right away and shift you and your Twin out of that frequency (so you’re not “available” to the negativity, you’ll be out of range and more protected).
For protection and clearing negativity on a deeper level, you’ll find the Golden Light Infusion and Shielding helpful. But definitely start with the article if you haven’t already read it.
Please don’t be afraid – you are a powerful soul x
Q: Help! My Twin Flame/person close to me is in trouble/struggling. I desperately need help.
A: Please don’t worry. Try to stay calm, as there are helpful resources out there. If you are dealing with addiction/depression/suicidal tendencies/abuse situations, ALWAYS contact the appropriate physical world/medical resources at hand.
When something negative has carried over into the physical so strongly, it’s imperative to deal with it on that level. Yes, send the person love and light, yes work on energy and healing but take the medical/physical world precautions as well.
If the situation is stable/not an emergency, I would recommend consulting guidance via the Twin Flame Oracle Card app to get deeper insights on causes, how to heal it, how to move forward into light and happiness.
Then, use the Free Resources here if you haven’t already, as it can help you shift into a higher state and even help your Twin.
Q: My Twin Flame is on the other side, please help!?
A: That can be a really wonderful experience, so glad you got in touch! You’ll find so many helpful resources in the Vibrational Alignment Program, including how to safely interact with them spiritually and more. You’ll also find the Free Guided meditation here helpful, as it takes you to “meet” and spend time with them on the soul planes.
For more info on what they are wanting to say/express, have a look at this article.
You’ll also find the Twin Flame Oracle Card App helpful, as it will help you open the connection to communicate more directly/receive guidance from them. You can use this for free.
Q: I’m not sure if I’m with a False Twin/Karmic Twin or not. Can you help me identify this?
Q: I think I’m dealing with a past life/karmic situation. Please help!
A: First of all, don’t worry. There are many tools and resources to help you and your guidance is working to assist you as well (even if you’re not aware of it).
Here is an article on past life karma you might find helpful, plus I teach you how to access the Akashic records (the soul records of karma) to see and clear your karma in the Vibrational Alignment Program. I have even created a guided audio that takes you through it easily in a step by step format.
If you want a “taster” I also have a powerful karma clearing and more information in the Complete Energy Clearing Session (webinar audio) here.
Q: Do same sex Twin Flames exist?/Do you have any content on same sex Twin Flames?
Q: I have a question about Twin Flame sex, can you answer me?
A: Sure! You’ll find lots of info on that in this article, and there is a whole module in the Vibrational Alignment Program that deals with this issue including kundalini rising and remote connections.
Q: What happens when Twin Flames have children?
A: This is something I’m asked about all the time, so there’s a whole article on it here.
Q: Is my Higher Self and my Twin’s Higher Self the same?
A: Not quite but you share an “oversoul”. Have a look at this article for more info.
Q: Will my Twin Flame and I ever reunite? Are Twin Flames destined to reunite?
A: Twin Flames are always ‘meant to’ and fully equipped to reunite and be happy together. HOWEVER, many get clogged up and blocked on their journey and therefore it doesn’t happen. Have a look at the video and info here for more details.
In essence, your souls are designed to be united and you always share love – the only thing that blocks it from being your physical experience as well, is HUMAN energy programming/blocks/negativity/attachments. Again, have a look here for more
Q: I have a (different) Twin Flame question! <3 Can Cassady answer me?
A: I’m glad you’re looking for info and taking action on your journey! My best recommendation is to check the blog because I have answered every common question about Twin Flames there – from telepathy to dreams to dealing with outsiders, to kundalini rising, energy healing, TF sex, angel numbers, reunions, timelines, pre-birth mapping and SO MUCH more…
Use the search on the top/right side and you’ll find articles with resources and answers xx
Plus, I’ve covered all the most common Twin Flame subjects in this “master post”
If you still want more answers, you can try commenting on a post, or attend one of my webinars/live sessions or apply to be a part of the yearly group coaching.
Or, you can consult the Twin Flame Oracle Card app, which I created with spirit to give the closest possible to a personal one on one coaching/psychic session while opening you to your OWN guidance as well – it has answers, guidance, channeled insights and more.
Sending you love and light x <3
Q: Can I book a one on one session/Why doesn’t Cassady offer one on one sessions? 🙂
A: Thanks for the question. I get asked all the time for private psychic/healing/coaching sessions and although I would love to help, it’s simply not possible for me at this point with the amount of requests I get.
The closest thing to working with me one on one would be to use the Twin Flame Oracle Card App with channeled guidance and actionable advice here (you get a free trial and daily free readings), or to apply for my yearly group coaching the Twin Flame Gold Membership (participants must have completed the Vibrational Alignment Program as self study first).
I used to do one on one sessions – but was clearly shown by guidance that I can help WAY more people by using a different format. Consider this: If I did one on ones, I could help MAYBE 1000-2000 people a year with spirit’s guidance and energy work, but this way their/my help gets to reach 1000s just in a regular week!
All my trainings and sessions are created in collaboration with spirit and are designed to not only alchemize and heal the Twin Flame connection – but to help people learn how to heal THEMSELVES and their Twin Flame connection with ease! Which will benefit the whole planet in turn!
This way, light spreads much faster and more effectively. If I did one on ones, it would keep people dependent on MY connection, and they wouldn’t open to their OWN connection to light/intuition/healing abilities. (We all have spiritual gifts as souls and in this era more and more are being awakened to it). So although I’m grateful my work resonates and you’d like to work with me one on one, this is 100% the guided method and I respect this specific higher direction from guidance!
Rest assured that all the resources I offer are specifically designed to give you max results without pain and purging – when you embrace your own journey, it will blossom so much more than if you depend on an “outsider” on a one on one basis. (I say this from my own experience, and what I’ve seen in readers/clients over the years)
Sending you love and light x
Q: Does your energy work/sessions impact my Twin Flame?
A: Yes! Absolutely. As “one soul divided” you are on the same frequency and everything you do affects them. When you work on your energy and heal and shift into a higher state, it will powerfully open the connection even if there have been issues before.
Have a look at some of the feedback here from other Twins to see how it happens time and time again, when the awakened/awakening Twin does energy work, the unawakened/runner/separated Twin is positively affected and often spurs them on to reach out and get (back) in touch/it deepens and makes the connection blossom.
Q: I’ve tried other meditations and sessions before and they didn’t work – what makes your sessions/program different?
A: Many meditations or courses will give you relaxation, or information and answers but don’t actually have the capability to change things around in a practical real life way. That’s why my sessions are so different and why I’m so passionate about energy work – with these methods we actually re-wire your being, clear out old blocks, remove permanently the negativity that’s been clogging up your system.
It’s not just theory – it works on a practical level. What really sets my work apart is, I don’t just tell you information – I take you step by step through eradicating negative energy programming, blocks and issues and shift your Twin Flame connection into a higher state. This includes powerful “quantum” energy healing, inner child work, alchemical journaling, “shadow integration”, “ego upgrades” and proven psychological tools and mindfulness methods.
We radically recalibrate your systems so that you’ll get real life tangible results that last!
For more info on how this functions and why energy work is so key for Twin Flames, have a look at the video here
Q: I’m not sure what to do next — which action/choice/session/option to take— please help!
A: Hi there, don’t worry, I completely get it! I think we’ve all felt like that at times. First of all, know that your soul ALWAYS knows the best next step. It’s just the human mind that gets into confusion. So you already HAVE the answer, on a deeper level!
To know what it is, try to feel your way there a bit. What feels most tingly, light and positive? If you’re looking at sessions, which one seems to be “calling you in”? Which one stands out? These are signs of your soul, your intuition guiding you to it because it will benefit you.
If you are having an issue with other decisions, I would strongly recommend starting to go within a few minutes a day and journaling, as this will help you get clarity. Again, your soul ALWAYS has the answer, it’s just a matter of calming the analytical mind/getting clear enough to perceive it.
The amazing thing is, your soul has the answer about EVERYTHING in your life/twin flame connection – so don’t worry. It always knows what’s to your highest good. Using the free energy cleanse here will help you clear out congestion and you’ll find it easier to perceive your soul’s guidance and your intuition – from there, I’d strongly recommend the full Program as I show you other powerful techniques for strengthening intuition and connecting with guidance.
Sending you love and light xx Cassady
Q: I love your work/had an amazing result and want to leave a review/testimonial! 🙂 🙂 Where can I send my video/message?
A: Whoohooo! I’m so thrilled to hear that! Congratulations!
Please send me your “success story” as a video/text testimonial at support (at) twinflames1111.com and mark the subject TESTIMONIAL
Thanks in advance so much for sharing your story, and enjoy the positive shifts! I love hearing about Twins’ amazing experiences with the tools – and to spread the word so as many Twin Flames as possible can awaken and reunite <3
Sending you love and light x Cassady
Q: Are you in social media? Instagram/Youtube/Facebook?
A: Yes! You can find all the “official” Twin Flames 11:11 accounts at
(If you see scam accounts or unauthorised copied content, please do let the team know at support(at)twinflames1111.com so they can address it –
For the good of the collective it’s important that content is correctly attributed so people know who they can trust and resonate with.)
Q: I’m really unsure what’s right for my connection/path. How can I know for sure if your work will help me or if I should go with someone else/not take action?
A: Definitely use the Free resources here and experience the shift you get from my work to see how you feel. And have a look at other Twins’ feedback here and see the kind of experiences people tend to have with my work.
And if you’re considering something/someone different, take a look at this article I made on how to find the right coach/teacher/healer/training/sessions for you and your path and connection
Q: Are you open to collaborations/promotions/guest posting/podcast interviews?
A: My schedule is very busy writing, working with guidance and creating content but if your project is aligned and to the highest good, then maybe!
Get in touch with support(a)twinflames1111.com and provide some more information, and the team will get back to you asap!
Q: I have an issue with a purchase, please help!
A: Email the address provided in the receipt email you got, and they’ll help you as soon as possible. (FYI I don’t have personal access to the technical backend, so I cannot help you if you reach out in social media/comment on a post about this)
Q: My comment didn’t go through! What’s up with that?!
A: There is a very specific comment policy on the site due to guidance. If something doesn’t go through it’s due to these guidelines. (I don’t personally monitor this as it would take too much time away from creating new resources/writing/connecting with guidance on strategy/projects) Have a look here for the guidelines as shown for the highest good
Q: Where can I buy your book?
A: “The Universe Speaks, Are You Listening?” was released by Hay House and is available in their stores and all the main bookstores and sites online such as Amazon/Barnes & Noble ++
Q: How can the Vibrational Alignment Program help me?
A: Put simply – this program and the energy clearing tools in it can help you in every way you can imagine! In essence, everything in the world is energy – it’s a scientific fact agreed on for decades: you and everything around you isn’t solid but consists of tiny atoms vibrating with particular energy frequencies. When you learn to use energy clearing, you can apply these to improve and uplift any area of your life, from your Twin Flame connection to finances and well-being/health. Simply, any negativity you experience in life is due to negative energy. With energy clearing tools you can literally remove any negative charges that have been creating struggle, separation and lack – both with your Twin and your life in general. Clearing negativity will actually lift your set point vibration over time, aligning you more and more with positivity and abundance in all ways.
Q: Who is the Vibrational Alignment Program meant for?
A: I created this for Twin Flames: it doesn’t matter whether you’re in separation or together, or whether your Twin is on the other side of the planet or even on the other side of life – it will even help you attract your Twin Flame if you’ve never met before. With energy tools we can shift your whole alignment, getting you into a state where you attract your Twin in harmony, no matter what your current or previous situation has been. And if you’re with your Twin and feel reasonably happy, this course will still show you tools to take your situation to the next level and uproot any niggling issues. The tools can also be applied to any other area of your life, to help you manifest abundance and happiness and health.
Q: How long does it take?
A: Based on my experience with clients and from my own journey, energy clearing is the fastest and smoothest way to improve your situation and clear the blocks and negativity that create problems for Twins. Spending as little as 20 minutes a day on this program, working the excercises and tools into your routine will enable you to start seeing definitive results. Have a look at our testimonials page to read about other people’s success Here. On my own journey it just took 18 months from when I first encountered my Twin to when we reached Union – and I didn’t have these tools for most of that time, I was experimenting along the way. In addition, these tools opened up our telepathic communication in the space of a few months.
Q: How does this work for my Twin? Can I clear for both of us?
A: Yes, you can! You and your Twin Flame share a collective energy field – because you are two aspects of the same consciousness. Everything you do, think and feel impacts each other and is tangled up with one another energetically. Put simply: When you clear your energy, it changes the whole dynamic between you. It both clears your collective field and resolves conflict. It’s like a rope that’s been stretched tense between two people. When one person lets go, there’s no tension anymore. The dynamic has changed and the negativity is released.
Q: Who are you, and how do you know enough to make a course?
I have been through Twin Flame Ascension myself and am now in Union with my Twin. I have gone through each and every step of the journey myself and have experienced the many ups and downs; I have an academic background in psychology and history and have read hundreds of books and articles both on Twin Flames and on energy and the human psyche, and I learned what works and what doesn’t through trial and error. I have also coached thousands of Twin Flames as an intuitive practitioner, and have had the unique opportunity to experience what the most common blocks are on this journey through learning about their blocks and experiences. In addition, I have been working very closely with spirit since my journey started – I receive tools and methods and guidance from spirit to share with other Twins through my writing. I was specifically asked to share the Vibrational Alignment Program with the world after I used the methods and tools to get through Ascension myself.
Q: Can I still do this course if I’m not psychic?
A: Yes, of course! It’s really not a psychic course – it’s more about energy and “consciousness engineering”. Everything is explained in a down-to-earth, easy way, and I’ve created it so you’ll actually find it fun to clear negativity and learn these new tools. The truth is that you are an energetic being in a human body and you direct your energy every day already – it’s just that you’re doing it without realizing, on autopilot. What we do in the program, is show you how you can consciously direct your energy to clear blocks and old negativity, and to actively create happiness and harmony between yourself and your Twin.
Q: Why do I need this course? I thought the Twin Flame journey was planned already, we just have to allow it to unfold….
A: Honestly, your soul DOES have a plan, and that plan is all about getting you back to Harmony with your Twin. The rest is pretty open, however – we are on earth to learn and evolve, so we always have Free Will. So how you choose to get together with your Twin in Harmony, is up to you. And how long it takes, is up to you. If you have negative energy and limiting patterns shaping your journey, you could risk waiting decades for things to “magically” resolve themselves. I’ve encountered clients who had been waiting on their Twin for 20 years with no change. And it wasn’t because they were doing anything “wrong” or it had been decided they weren’t worthy of coming together – it was because their energies were out of alignment.
The truth is that we are all co-creators of our journey. No one will fix things for you – this is one of the lessons we’re being asked to learn: you are the master of your journey. In order to get into harmony and true Union with your Twin, you need to take action and clear the negativity that’s been bringing you out of your natural balance with each other. No amount of waiting, or thinking or analysis can clear the energy. In fact, Twins often get stuck in negative cycles because they overanalyze or wait for divine intervention without really taking action to change anything. I made this course to be an actionable method that can really change things for the better for Twins, no matter what situation they’re in.
Q: Can I pay with installments for the Vibrational Alignment Program?
Paypal now offers an installment plan so you can buy now and pay later. Just tick ‘Paypal credit’ when you checkout in the store.
Q: I am having trouble downloading your free kit or a purchase from your shop
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Q: Can I book a reading with you or a one on one session?
Again, I’m currently not offering readings or private sessions. However, I have collected the most powerful resources I’ve found on my journey and placed them in my Vibrational Alignment Program which contains far more than I could ever teach you in a one hour session or tell you about yourself in a reading. It was created to be a Roadmap to Twin Flame Union with me as your personal guide. It contains everything I’ve learned along my path to Twin Flame union, how to manage your energy to reach union and a state of harmony. It also covers how to deal with and resolve running, chasing, separation and much much more. It can be done in as little as 20 minutes a day – The Vibrational Alignment Program I’ve also put together a Free starter kit containing sections of my full program – Free Twin Flame Help Kit
Q: I have a question about my Twin Flame connection, can you answer please?
A: Again, If you have a question about you or your Twin try first using the search feature on my blog to find your answer
It’s possible I’ve written something on the topic already that can help you!
Q: What if I fall asleep during a session?
A: First of all, don’t worry! It’s still working on your system – but on a deeper unconscious level. I would recommend doing the session again while fully awake another time, to make sure you get all the shifts as intended – and to learn about what I tell you in the session. Try listening at an earlier time in the day, or when you feel more rested!
Q: What if I don’t “feel” much during the session/energy work?
A: This is super common and normal when first starting out with energy work – as you go along you will feel it more and more, and the shifts will become more “obvious”. I used to not feel anything much myself when I started out, but it becomes more and more tangible.
Do know that it’s working whether you feel, see or sense it or not. You are a being of energy, and your intention truly is creating remarkable shifts behind the scenes. As you go along, the shifts begin to more and more translate into positive noticeable shifts inside and around you!
I really hope you found this page useful! 🙂
I’ll keep adding to it as new things may show up.
Be your own best friend and use the site and resources I’ve provided, as much as possible – because that’s really what will give you massive positive results! (And you can get started for Free right now)
You’re a powerful being – remember to take action on your journey.
Guidance and your soul are always looking to help you and the resources on here are great “shortcuts” to help you move forward faster and with more ease.
As always, I’m sending you love and light <3