Q&A: 5 Hidden Reasons Why Your Prayers Aren’t Being Answered


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Feel like the Universe has forgotten about you? Twin Flame Struggle all around? There are hidden factors at play – find out why your manifestations aren’t happening, and how you can fix it.


This is an issue many Twin Flames come to me with every single week, so I felt it was time to address this once and for all. Many Twin Flames work for years to try to get together harmoniously but it seems like no matter what you try, it’s not working.

Reunion or Union just isn’t happening no matter how much you wish or visualize or pray.

First of all, let me say it’s not something the Universe or your Guides are doing to test you or to teach you patience. Once your energy is in alignment, things can happen almost overnight. The true reasons things aren’t happening the way you want are both simpler and yet more complicated than that:

It’s Not the Universe or your Guides’ “Fault”


My guides tell me this is one of the biggest challenges they face when working with people on the earth plane and they’re eager to spread this information so we can get the things we need and pray for.

The tricky issue here is that we here on earth are blocking the help, love, positivity and “miracles” the guides and the universe are working to bring us. They are working to get you exactly what you ask for, but you yourself might be blocking their every attempt.

Here’s how it works: When we send out the intention that we want something, this is energetically transmitted to the universe and the universe sends us the response – the fulfillment of our wish or desire.

But what happens more often than not is that although the answer is returned and the “gift” is on its way – once it reaches our energy field it can’t get through. It’s being sent but we are incapable of receiving it.

Your Invisible Block to Love and Miracles

Let me explain. Imagine there’s an energetic screen door between you and the universe. You yourself have unconsciously set up this door to keep flies and mosquitoes (problems, danger) out.

But what the screen door actually also does is keep out the butterflies and the fireflies (miracles, solutions to problems, love, energy gifts, synchronicities). As you can see, this is a pretty big block when you’re asking for things from the universe.

The truth is that you yourself might be the reason love or abundance just isn’t happening. You might be unconsciously blocking the very things you’re asking for. 

Opening Up to Miracles

I was asked by spirit to do a special intensive clearing session on this to help Twins open up to new energy vibrations and move towards increased Harmony and Union, and most of all to help everyone receive all the good things the universe is working to bring us all.

We are meant to live in love and abundance and to be connected in positivity in order to lift the energy vibrations on earth, but often we don’t experience life that way. It’s time to rewire our energy filters to finally allow in the good stuff.

Imagine all the things you’ve been working on manifesting, all the intentions and wishes you’ve sent out. The results and answers are out there in the ether, waiting to reach through once you open up. So let’s open you up once and for all so miracles can finally reach you.

You can download the Energy Clearing for Twin Flames here 


#1) You Can Only Receive What You’re Open to Allowing in

The truth is that the Universe and our guides are constantly working to bring us the things we’re asking for – but in so many cases those very things are being blocked by default by our energy field, and we never receive. 

Notorious blocks to receiving are things like lack of self love and lack of self acceptance (if you’re in a vibration of self doubt and shame, you’re on the opposite end of the scale to accepting someone appreciating and loving you).

Most of us also have our energy field wired with varying degrees of disbelief, fear issues, skepticism, cynicism and fear of disappointment, and these things keep us out of receiving the positive things we’re asking for.

This is why our soul often answers our prayers and wishes by bringing up the negative blocks so we can clear them and thereby receive our answers and our gifts. For us, though, this just feels like negativity coming up for no reason and often it’s incredibly disheartening to us. The soul’s logic is: you want this, great, let me help you get rid of what’s blocking it so you can have it.

#2) Your Reality is Literally Wired to Block Your Wishes

My Twin showed this to me once: We humans have a kind of filter around us, like a screen door shield around our “reality field”, which only will allow in a certain range of frequency to our space.

This is something that’s “wired” into us from patterning the reality fields of people around us growing up. We match our parents energy fields because living closely with others means unless our energy fields match, there’s dissonance. People automatically do this through sympathy and interacting emotionally – we match each other’s energies and form cords and attachments.

So if your parents were worried about money and didn’t feel loved by people around them, if they felt that their dreams would never come true, this is something you’d have copied unconsciously into your energy. If they operated mainly from the lower energies of conflict, fear and survival modes, you would have matched yourself to fit into their “reality field” – the shared energy field around them and you.

Now when you’re an adult yourself you might believe differently and have done your inner work to realize you can manifest your desires and that your life can be wonderful – but this deeply engrained patterning can still be causing blocks to you receiving those wonderful things you’re asking for.

This is deep stuff that was formed before we were old enough to realize what was going on and that this wouldn’t serve us in life, but the great news is we can shift and alter our reality fields with energy tools.

#3) You’re Not in a High Enough Vibration (yet)

In order to make something happen energetically (and remember the whole world is energy in motion) we have to match our energy to it. The most basic laws of energy work in a simple and predictable way. If you want something, you have to be able to match your energy to it.

Sounds easy, right? This is why so much of the spiritual community and psychology talk about belief. Because believing something helps you match your energy to it, drawing in the thing you believe in.

So when it comes to attracting, manifesting and receiving those dreams we have – getting to Twin Flame Union, being happy together, landing the dream job, losing weight – our biggest problem is that we’re often not in a high enough vibration to really attract the results we want. Often we don’t really believe it can happen.

If we’re not able to really get into the energy frequency of love consistently, Twin Flame harmony will be something you’ll only experience fleetingly, if at all. Manifestation and attraction are processes that often take some time – and in order to secure positive results we have to stay in a positive vibration, in order to be in alignment. That’s not always so easy.

The great thing is that Twin Flame Ascension is designed to help you attract your ideal outcome with your Twin Flame – this whole process is meant to release and clear from you anything that’s been holding you in a low vibration. So that you can be in alignment with all good, all harmony, all love.

In other words, it’s just a question of time. If you keep doing your inner work and lifting and clearing your energy regularly – eventually you will get into alignment with what you’re desiring. Anything else would be impossible.

You can begin shifting and uplifting your energy right now with the powerful cleanse tool in my Free Help Kit for Twin Flames.

#4) You’ve Got Hidden Counter-intentions Working Against You

When we send out a conscious intention or a wish into the Universe, the signal gets transmitted and starts the process of attracting what’s a match to this. Sounds simple, right? Know what you want, place the “order” and receive your “gift”.

The issue for human beings on earth is that we don’t just operate on a conscious level. Our psychology is so multifaceted and complex that we can have a multitude of different and opposing intentions working and sending out signals to the Universe at the same time.

This means we’re subconsciously sending out mixed signals – and you guessed it, this means we get mixed results. Fear, doubt, disbelief, skepticism are notorious counter-intentions that mess up our plans. 

What happens is that, say you want to come back with your Twin Flame who’s been a Runner for a long time. You’re sending out the intention and wish to the Universe to come back together with your Twin in Love. However, underneath the surface there are a number of counter-intentions brewing.

Subconsciously, you fear that he will never really change, and you’re worried about what hurt might be waiting for you if you do come together, plus you’re concerned with what made him Run in the first place and whether it had something to do with you not being enough or you acting in a way that made him Run, and deep, deep down at the pit of your being there’s a core fear of the ultimate terror of no one loving you.

This sounds extreme, but once you start looking at people’s energy and get insight into the subconscious material (I’ve seen this in hundreds of sessions with Twin Flames) there are always some potentially illogical yet pervasive counter-intentions present.

On this journey, therefore, it’s helpful to get to know ourselves and our innermost feelings because this is how we’ll get to weed out those patterns and beliefs that are working against us.

Try writing down your desires and “listen” to the objections that come up in the way. These objections are what’s been blocking you. Once you find out what they are, you can clear them with energy tools.

#5) Other People’s Energies and Intentions are Getting in the Way

Because we’re energetic beings, when we interact with others we inevitably take on their energies and patterns and they ours (unless we protect ourselves and clear our energy regularly).

This means that well-meaning friends and family members who’ve been hurt in love could be unconsciously sending out intentions into your future field, with their beliefs and blueprints that True Love is Impossible or that Love Hurts or Miracles Don’t Happen. Needless to say, this doesn’t help your own hard work to stay positive and have faith. 

A few ways to remedy this is: Clear your energy regularly and cut cords to others, spend more time around positive people (or read books or listen to audio tapes by people whose positive outlook you’d like to emulate), and work on recognizing limiting beliefs at work in your life.

Get to know your intuition better because it will always lead you to the truth, and help you see past illusions and negativity.

If you really want to make a lot of changes fast and open yourself up to receiving all those good things you might have been blocking – here’s the Clearing Session again.

As always, sending you love and light for your continued journey! <3


Cassady x


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