Q&A: Twin Flame Conflict – Why Do I Have To Do All The Work?


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Many Twin Flames are in the situation of being one of a pair where their divine complement is “running”, not open to spiritual methods, or simply not physically present to help for some reason or other…

I get so many questions about how to handle this. About why the situation is so imbalanced and why the Twin Flame connection seems to be like this – where one Twin does all the “work” while the other isn’t contributing…

I completely understand the frustrations this can cause. I’d like to remind everyone again that energy clearing tools do work for both Twins even if you’re only doing the work “for your own sake” your Twin will be impacted positively by your increased vibration.


What To Do if Your Twin Flame Is “Unawakened”

If your Twin Flame is unawakened (not spiritually conscious of their soul’s truth and the reality of your connection, or a “runner”) – I would highly recommend the channeled Higher Dimensional Anchoring and Awakening Session here.

So many Twins have benefitted from this, with feedback like:

“After I did it, he messaged me! BAM! Just like that – got the meditation, did it, and there he was.” – Indi, New York

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The Higher Dimensional Anchoring completely blew me away. Not only did this seem to impact me on an enormous level, I saw my Twin Flame completely change overnight. The biggest change I’ve seen in him to date. I’m so grateful for your tools, and I’m merely without words on this latest one. It really was the answer to my prayers.” – Sarah (via Facebook)


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High Vibrational Answers To Solve the Stalemate

So now onto today’s question. As this week’s question is a complex issue and I know that this can feel like an “impossible” one to solve, I’ve asked spirit to answer with me this week.

Before we begin, Archangel Michael would like to present himself for the highest good.

He is a high vibrational energy being who works with everyone who incarnates on earth, as long as they are willing, and he oversees the Twin Flames’ journeys back to each other.

He is non-denominational, which means you don’t have to belong to a particular religion (or even be religious at all) to receive his guidance and help on your journey

As Michael is a powerful energetic presence (he often shows up as a vivid blue energy and you might see glints of blue light when he’s communicating with you), he can be in multiple places at once, so he’s never “too busy” or “occupied elsewhere” – he can always help you. You can call on him any time you need support or uplifting.

He is a very strong transmitter of energy – even if you’re not able to hear your personal guides Michael is capable of communicating very strongly.

Whenever I’ve been too congested to hear my own guides, Michael has “translated” for me. If you’re looking to develop your connection and even open your channel with your Twin telepathically (it’s partially the same channel being used) he is happy to ‘practice’ with you as he is able to cut through fear blocks and things that would often block your personal guides.

Be mindful that his advice and insights are always empowering and seek to be positive – he will answer what you ask but he won’t push you. Your Free Will is paramount.

Q: “My Twin Flame Never Helps – Why Do I Have To Do All The Work?”


“Dear everyone,

Thank you for being here! Thank you for your questions. I want you all to know that your communication, questions, prayers and requests are an invaluable part of the process – when you tell us what you need and want, we can send you solutions to your questions, we can funnel more energy into resolving any issues you may be facing.

So please keep praying, keep asking, keep making requests. Don’t forget your role as co-creators of this journey, but by all means, do not feel you are alone with any burdens. We are only so happy to take them from you if needs be.

This particular question is very pertinent.

At this now moment there are thousands of Twin Souls and Lightworkers out in the world wondering about and being frustrated about this very question – Why is it all on me? Why am I the one being asked to do all of this? Why can’t it be done for me? Why am I not receiving more help?

This is a multilayered situation, and I ask you to please bear with me as we open up to the core of the issue.

Old World Programming

Firstly, recognize that this very question and situation is rooted in a separation mentality. It is in itself a sign that you are still carrying old world programming from the third dimensional reality – where it’s you versus me, them versus us, women versus men, one person separate from another…

The fact that you are raising this issue allows us to pinpoint how important this shift is. The new realm you are creating, of unity, joy and harmony – has no room for conflict and separation.

Now, I am not chastising you but understand that it is a gift that your question has revealed a deeper issue. Something you can address in order to move into increased joy and love.

When you open up to the new fifth dimensional higher vibration unity consciousness you will begin to realize this. There is always balance, it is how the universe is created.

So although you may be doing all the work in one situation, you will receive your “payback” in another situation – in some way at some point. This is how the universe works. So know, that if you are on a down slope now, it will come back up.

The Universe Seeks To Balance Everything

Nothing ever goes unadjusted. This is why the energy currents on earth are in constant flux, it is because things seek their natural balance. As you shift out of the old consciousness programming that has been embedded in you by the human world, clear it, purge it, release it… You open up to balance.

By releasing the feelings of frustration in this situation, you allow your “return on investment” to show up from the universe.

You begin to open up to the deeper truth of who you are as a spiritual being. One. One with the universe, one with your divine complement, one with everything that stands.

When you embrace unity consciousness you come to realize that the world the way you perceive it with your eyes and ears and body, is an illusion.

When you lift up into this way of being, it will in time cease to matter to you who does what, when, because you will feel in your very being that it will ultimately be in balance. That things have a purpose. And you will either do things from a place of joy, or not at all.

What Is Your Deeper Intention?

In fact, this is a theme of learning for the whole collective right now – that it’s not so much about what you do but what intention you do it from.

As an example, you can clean your house with a smile on your face and make it a joy, or you can clean your house from a place of obligation and resentment. These choices are more yours than you think.

So to answer you in a practical way: If you feel your relationship with your Twin soul is imbalanced, here are a few things you can do to adjust this situation:



Adjust your mindset and your intention, as this in itself will shift your energy field to invite in more help. If you need to have a break so you’re not “up against the wall” of the situation, please do so.

Take some time to just focus on yourself – at least set that intention when and if you do the work, you’re doing it for *you*.

The “martyrdom syndrome” many human beings have, only serves to reinforce the negatives. Those who give, give, give and never get back – it is because of the energetic intention, a skewed pattern.

To give from a place of joy, or to love from a place of joy, will never lead to resentment that the gesture or work isn’t being returned. Giving and loving from a place of plenty, makes you open to receiving back.



Make sure you ask your Twin Flame’s higher self to step in, to assist you in your positive work to clear your energies and to come back together. Oftentimes they are just waiting for you to ask.



Let go of polarity and separation consciousness – know that the universe seeks balance, and that as long as you open up, you will receive the help and the support you’re needing and wanting.

Even if your Twin Flame isn’t ready or able to give it to you yet, please know that the universe will find some way of relieving you of the pressure and the burden of feeling you’re alone in this. Help and support will come.


Have you always been the “giver”, never the “receiver”? Have you always worked hard while others let you do all the work? These patterns of imbalance often go back to childhood.

Meditate on your inner child and ask them how they feel. You might realize that this is an energetic imbalance the two of you can release and resolve once you become aware of it. And once you release the pattern, you clear the energetic deadlock that’s kept you in a situation of not receiving the help you desire.

As long as you believe you’re on your own, unfortunately this is the signal you’re sending out and receiving back more of – sometimes people block help from arriving because their energy field is entrenched with this pattern.


Remember that you and your Twin Soul are one. Polarity and separation consciousness is a core pattern the Twin Souls chose to experience – in order to understand the human experience, move past it and lift the planet into love.

You and your Twin Soul are one – know that it is the human belief system that’s been ingrained in you that is causing you and so many other Twins to focus on the discrepancies, the disagreements, the difficulties.

As you are One, you are always helping yourself.


Know also that the Twin Soul connection is a metaphysical one above all. Your earthly experiences are a mere fraction of what truly goes on.


Behind the scenes, your Twin Soul is assisting you each and every step of the way, pre-paving and building timelines for you to come together, creating the astral spaces where you meet in dreams, making the connections that bring you the information that will get you together in the physical…


Things are not as they seem from the outside. Even the most “unawakened” of human beings are involved in parallel soul plane activities.



You always have the choice. No one will force anything upon you. You are allowed to choose for yourself. Once you step into that truth, any clearing and Ascension work you do will come from a different perspective. A different intention.

Any time you choose do anything in life from this point onwards – whether it is enjoyable or not – affirm to yourself “I choose to do this”. “This is my choice”.

You are now sending out a completely different energy signal, you are now subverting stress and struggle into empowerment. It really is that powerfully simple, energetically.



You may have been told you have a “mission” on earth as a Twin Flame or Lightworker. This can add to the feeling of pressure. Let me tell you this once and for all – your “mission” is to be as much *you* as you can be, as joyous and as blissful as possible.

Because when you are radiating your light, when you are shining with joy – your light and energy lift up the whole world around you. You being truly happy, you following your bliss – that is the key.

You will never be asked by the higher realms to do anything that leads you away from your happiness. Keep this in mind at all times. The “mission” is simply to be you, happily.

I am so joyous to share this with you because I am aware of the weight that the word “mission” holds in your world.

Throw that burden aside because you are immaculately positively able to help by just being you. That is how you radiate light that helps everyone around you, without you having to physically lift a finger. That is the truth of the “mission”, the joy of it.

Lastly, I would like you to know that I am always there to lend a helping hand or to listen if you need to unload your burdens. Call on Archangel Michael of the Light, and I will be with you instantaneously. You will recognize my guidance as being focused on positivity, uplifting and empowerment.

Yours in light, yours in the energy of love and empowerment

Archangel Michael


PS: Please do not forget to invite your personal guides and your higher self to assist you on your journey – they need your free will permission in order to fully assist you. Write down your request on a note, and allow them to step in. You are always a co-creator on this journey and are encouraged and expected to take action to clear your energy, resolve negative patterns and uplift yourself, but your team can always step in to assist you further.”



Want more? In my channeled Vibrational Alignment Program for Twin Flames, Archangel Michael answers 12 questions about common Twin Flame problems such as “my twin flame doesn’t want to be with me”, “what if my twin soul is married?”, “family/friends are trying to get between us” and more…

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