A Warning to All Twin Flames – The #1 Mistake So Many Make


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Are You Waiting For A Savior? Beware The “Guru Trap”. Why The Journey of Your Souls’ Creation Is In Your Hands, More Than You’ve Been Ever Allowed To Believe…


Today’s article is going to be a bit different. Because I’ve noticed something dangerous going on across the board in spiritual circles… including many Twin Flame discussion boards and advice forums.

The “guru trap”. An ancient pattern that human culture has nursed for centuries, to look outside of ourselves for saving, for fixing, for divine intervention, for miracles…

The desire to be lead. To have information presented by someone outside of you, that seemingly gives you all the answers. Information of when certain things will happen with your Twin, whether you’ll come together or not…

Prophecies of when Twins will Reunite at some time in the near future… (Google some of these predictions posted a few years ago – you’ll discover that 90% of what they promise didn’t come to pass, so let that be an indication)


Who Are You Really? And Why Are You Here?

The reality is we are creators, the divine all along. We just need to embrace our inner power and apply it, directing it outward to create the miracles we desire.

And I’m not at all saying it’s easy or an overnight thing – I’m still working on this lesson myself. But as long as we keep looking to others and staying in the dark about our own capabilities, it can per definition not happen. And that’s often why things seem to be so stuck for Twins.

This is perhaps the core lesson our souls have chosen to learn in this lifetime, so we keep being pushed up against the wall. To realize that we are our own answers, creators – that we can “perform our own miracles”. Really, it can be an epiphany that opens it up for you…

But most often it takes time to begin truly stepping into the light of who we are as a soul and to ensure real life changes that way. When we clear our old baggage, release limitations and instill new positivity, at some point we “click into” that place of positive power.

The power to change things with our intentions, actions and energy instead of standing in a place of *hoping* things will change due to some outer circumstances beyond our control…

So how has your situation with your Twin Flame been so far?

Have you been waiting for someone else for rescue, like so many of us have been taught to do in life?

If so, how has that been working out for you?


The Real Twin Flame Purpose – Why We All Divided

Right now, you and your Twin Flame are on this journey of love together – you chose to divide from one original soul consciousness into two bodies.

So that you could be born here on earth, learn and experience the human world of separation. Then to journey back together, mirroring back to each other any shadow, fear or hurt you’ve carried inside – so that you could heal each other with love and reunite whole, both as individuals and as a pair.

This is why you came here. To accept and love unconditionally, in a masterful path of transcending the human world of separation and conflict. To with your love, help all of humanity bridge the distance from soul to soul, heart to heart.

A beautiful journey for those who make it. But so many Twin Flames are sadly stuck in separation and struggle… When that was never what their souls intended when they came here.

It’s no secret that many Twin Flames are unlikely to Reunite in this lifetime. There’s no happy ending for everyone, unfortunately. But there can be – and often, it requires a complete shift in approach.


Life Is A Free Will Game

The truth is: You are the one who has to travel your path. No one can travel your path or learn your lessons for you.

You know your “stuff” better than anyone else – and your soul wants you to experience these lessons to the fullest, because that’s how you evolve, that’s how you open up to a love bigger and wider than people on earth ever experienced…

This is why I teach tools, not “rules”. Learning to manage your energy, clear old negativity and uplift into a higher vibration will work wonders both for your Twin connection and your life in general.


What Twin Flame Beliefs Are Causing Struggle For You?

Now, back to “the Guru Trap”. I want to make it completely clear: I’m not here to fix you. That’s not how healing and the spiritual journey works.

You cannot impose healing on someone. It’s an inner alchemy, a process of self discovery that no outer person can do for you.

Someone can guide you, show you the path in front of you and give you information and tools to assist you to make the best of your situation, to get you to your desires, but they can never travel the path for you.

Often I feel like Twin Flames forget that I’m a person too. I’m making my own journey as I walk it, and running this site has been energetically more intense than I ever anticipated to begin with.

When I first began giving readings to Twin Flames I started with an honest desire to help. But I noticed that conflict frequently flared up between myself and my Twin afterwards – because the other person’s energy had become tangled up with my own… (as an empath, I was gifted with spiritual abilities but the downside of this is picking up on more “truth” about others than is pleasant).

We’re all energetic beings. Currently, there are tens of thousands of Twins focusing their energy onto me, for good or bad… and I have to admit to you that a lot of times I’ve debated whether to throw in the towel and stopping the site altogether just to get away from the intensity of it all.


Kings & Queens: Recognizing Your Own Sovereignty

There is a lot of pressure directed toward “leaders” and “gurus” and “spiritual channels” to present magical solutions, to fix things. The truth is no one is duty bound to fix anything for anyone else.

This is a free will game, life. I started out with the joyous desire to help others because I’d helped myself, and believed that it was possible for others to do the same with my tools and methods.

Judging by the enormous amount of positive feedback I get on the Vibrational Alignment Program and the Free Twin Flame Downloads, it was the right decision.

And many of you do seem to understand the spiritual truth that you are your own sovereign creator, that you have the power, and you’re happy to know and feel this…  And you’re aware that if there’s work or challenges, you can put in the effort, clear it and reap the benefits.

And above all that it’s in your power to feel good within yourselves, to live in love from within… Which is, incidentally the “inside miracle” which begins to attract positivity in your relationships too and opens you up to Twin Flame Union.


Spiritual Truth From A 16th Century Poet

But there is a large part of the community who seem to be “stuck”. Whether that’s an inside perspective or an outside fact. Some people simply don’t believe things can get better – some even believe that Twins are destined to suffer – and they choose to not take any action, for that reason.

There’s a sense of entitlement, a sense that someone else is to blame for the current situation or that it’s up to someone else to fix things.

Often, it’s not an aggressive sense of entitlement, it’s a victimhood mentality. Yes, I’m calling some of you out on it…

“Stop playing small. You are the universe in ecstatic motion” – Rumi


When the honest truth your soul is waiting for you to realize is, it all begins and ends with you. You are a co-creator of your reality, as an infinite soul.

If you take the victimhood stance, you mirror this out into your outer circumstances, call in more of it from the universe. You end up waiting for others, you end up being let down over and over… (Read more about the Twin Flame Mirror and how this works)

I know this can be tough to take but ultimately, you are the only one who can truly make you happy. You are the only one who can make this journey work for you, and you knew that when you came to earth.

When your happiness depends on someone else’s behavior – you leave your life’s journey vulnerable to circumstances …


Why You And Your Twin Flame Are Here

You and your Twin didn’t come to earth because you wanted to suffer and experience endless heartbreak. You came here for love.

And if things got tangled up along the way, that’s often because of free will choices you both made. But you were aware of this possibility too, you took it into consideration. There are always solutions. You made sure of it.

The important thing is, it’s not impossible to come together.

But it’s up to you. It’s certainly not up to me or anyone else. You are the master of your own journey. However – over the last few years I have done my best to provide you with all the advice, insights and tools I’ve found to truly make a practical difference.

There are now hundreds of articles with resources here on this website for you, as well as free energy downloads you could be using to uplift your path and progress toward your ideal Twin Flame reunion.

So my question to you today is:
Are you doing that?
Are you using the tools and free downloads?

Are you regularly applying the insights and tools to reap real world results?

Be honest with yourself.

Are you taking action, or are you waiting for someone else to take action for you?


The Day That Everything Changes

I believe in you, but I have my own journey to make. You have yours… And I believe in your capability: You are a huge soul who’s here in a human body for a limited time.

Make your life a story worth telling!

If you’ve already found your inner place of inner power and are feeling like things are going well or at least improving, well done! Thank yourself for doing that for yourself, above all. Your soul is so proud of you!

And your Twin’s Soul is grateful, I promise you – go here to read a message from The Divine Masculine and The Divine Feminine to see it their own words.

And if things suck right now, make a change. You don’t just have to play the cards you’ve been dealt.

Pick yourself up and decide that today is the day that everything changes. Stick with it, for at least 30 days.

Begin connecting with the light on a regular basis and you’ll feel boosted from the inside out, connecting with your bigger soul’s presence and tapping into your deeper power.

Do the Free energy cleanse, meditate to meet your Twin on the spiritual planes. Begin clearing Karmic Blocks to open up your path once more. When you do things consistently, it changes the systemic patterning in your being and uplifts you and your Twin Flame connection over time.


Where Do You Want to Be In 9 Years’ Time?

2017 is a 1 year – the first of a new 9 year cycle in numerology. It’s all about new beginnings, making a change, expansion, growth. So, in 9 years’ time, where would you like to be?

Self sufficient, in your power, enjoying the feeling of love from the inside out? Radiating that energy out and attracting respect, care and love from others – especially your Twin Flame?

Or will you be looking for others or the divine to steer your journey, fix things, save you?

In spiritual truth, you are the Universe. You are the creator of your own life experience. When you look to others to magic your life right, you attract disempowerment back – more feelings of being powerless, hopeless.

Get started now, and sooner than you know it things will feel better, lighter, sunnier. I’ve seen it happen time and time again. But it’s up to you to take the steps to make it happen…

You can go here now to see all the various transformation and clearing sessions spirit and I have created for the Twin Flame collective. Let yourself be guided to what might benefit you most at this time… Your soul is always trying to reach through.

I believe in you!

Cassady x

Want more? For my step-by-step “roadmap” to Twin Flame Union, based on how my Twin Flame and I reached Union within just 18 months of our first encounter – have a look at the Vibrational Alignment Program for Twin Flames.

You can also read here about other Twins’ experiences with the program

Alternatively you can try our Free Help Kit for Twin Flames

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“Cassady’s teachings and techniques have lifted me from utter soul sickness to greater peace and increasing forgiveness, self love and love for my partner. Now I can greet my fear and anguish with peace and love. I am finally feeling more calm, clear and confident. Thank you Cassady!”

– Kate, California, USA

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